New, looking for help. WAW won't communicate.

[HPoirot]

Oh okjpc I feel you but opposite. My W has send me a few nice texts over the past couple days... yesterday a pic of my son with is baby cousin. This morning a "merry Christmas HP. Tell me did you get S11 a computer?" Later a "Hey how is the day going?" Then a "s11 says he wants to stay later with you tomorrow. Is X time OK to pick him up?"

So, different from you where you sent texts and feel stung for not getting a response, I get texts and respond to none of them and feel stung I get the texts from this woman in the horrible situation. Then I check if she sent more texts. Stupid, frustrating, and painful.

We have to let this all go. The advice is to assume nothing about them... just be in the present where you are now. I am lucky my S11 is here playing the game I got for him and excited to show it to me. It's like a movie so I watch with him. I forget for a few minutes. Then sometimes I check the phone for a text to ignore. See... I'm laughing at myself right now.

So, remember Dirty Harry. He comes home alone, opens a six pack, relaxes. Maybe not a happy man... but he doesn't go on and on about it... not even with himself. He has a purpose and just keeps going.

I'm sorry you're not getting the response you want. If I got a text I wanted to see... I would respond too. I see that is what I'm doing... still expecting something that it's best for me to accept won't come.

I'm with you okjpc. I feel sick and in pain right now with you.

Just keep going. Find something to enjoy right now and the pain will lessen.

I'm going to warm up lasagne for dinner and get back to my boy. Read something inspiring. Maybe see the Unbroken movie tomorrow. Anything to keep going.

Just keep going.