Hi. Just accept what it is for now. We don't know what's going through their minds and we are never going to guess. I deal with it by accepting she's gone. Take each interaction for what it is. Nothing more. If W wants to sort it out or work on R then you will know I mind read for the first 5 weeks and all the signs were there that W wanted to come home but 9 weeks later she seems settled and happy enough You can never tell Keep working o. Detachment and moving on