H never gave me a clear reason in the beginning. Over the last few months I've heard these:
- he gave me everything and I gave him nothing - the wedding got out of control and I got caught up in it and didn't care what he wanted - problems with his brother and family - I didn't clean the house or take care of anything - I'm negative - I don't have good relationships with other people - he wanted "more" - we had "ugly" fights - I didn't make him feel loved or appreciated - I didn't ever take his advice or respect his opinion - I didn't like his friends - I complained he worked too much
I think the reason it came after the bachelor weekend was because it finally hit him that our "wedding" was so close and he felt trapped. I think he felt like his life was over. He had made a comment to friends in front of me the week before about how he had a kid, a dog, and was getting married so his life was over. It was a very weird comment to make, even our friends thought so.
I also think maybe his brother or mom said something to him. They both have never supported our relationship or really cared for me, and I think this weighed on him.
The secret wedding was H's idea. He said to me at dinner one night that he knew he wanted to be married to me, and that I didn't matter if it was a week from then, tomorrow, or 8 months from now, so we should get married and put Hunter and I on the insurance.
Everyone says the same thing-- that something doesn't seem right. That H was always a family man and we always looked so in love. That this B came at such a weird time and it makes no sense that he walked out and doesn't even want to talk or try to work things out. I don't think there is another woman bc H isn't like that, but something happened.
Me 26 ; H 26 S 8 Married less than a year Bomb 9/15/14 H moves out 9/15/14 H Files 11/21/14 Served D papers 12/31/14
