Hey Rp,

H is still insisting that I leave the house. He hasn't said those words or asked me when I'm moving out in a while, which is nice bc he was asking me every week. But he still makes subtle hints about it: i.e. he talks about plans he has for the house which don't include me. Or he'll make comments about how hard it's been living in his car.

I'm sure the pressure will be put on again after the holidays. Part of me thinks he is just waiting for the holidays to pass.

Living with relatives isn't an option unfortunately. My dad is a jerk and would tear me down on a daily basis if I moved in there. My mom undermines me as a parent and would destroy my relationship with S8. Moving in with either would be a huge price to pay in order to save money. H knows this and hopefully understands. Who knows though...


Me 26 ; H 26
S 8
Married less than a year
Bomb 9/15/14
H moves out 9/15/14
H Files 11/21/14
Served D papers 12/31/14