Thank you, NAJ. I went ahead and sent a text to the three of them: 'Merry Christmas! Hope you're having a great day.'

I'm trying now to pretend like I'm not hoping to get a response. (This probably would be a good day to leave the phone in the other room.)

At any rate, Merry Christmas, and good luck to you today, NAJ.

Me: 39 W: 46
D: 7.5 S: 5
SD: 16 SS: 12
T: 2 (06/2012)
M: 2 (12/2012)
Separation 09/2014. No talks of D yet. No communication since 10/3/2014