Missed the edit button but I should have added that I sent a text to MIL, FIL & W when I got home.. Nothing over the top.. My text to MIL/FIL went:

Hey MIL/FIL.. Thank you for kindly inviting me to yet another xmas!!.. I greatly appreciate it and all of the effort you put in.. It means the world to me.. Merry Xmas!!..

The text I sent to W was:

Hi W.. Thank you for a great day with our boys and everyone else.. All the kids looked like they had a ball.. I appreciate the effort you put in to it all.. I hope you had a good day as well.. Merry Xmas once again!!..

H

The response I got from W was "No worries, they sure did look like they had a ball and I hope you had a good day too.. Merry Xmas"..


I know it's hindsight now, but were those messages ok to send??..

Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..