We're unfortunately living parallel lives. 31 days ago I was a happily married man and today, waiting to be served as she's got a lawyer already for the D. I'd have to agree about the OM. When I checked in with my wife a month ago, she just "needed to be alone." A week later that was "I need to date other guys." A week later? " I have feelings for him, we've kissed and I haven't love you for 12 years."
This information hasn't done me any good, especially living in a no fault divorce state. I expect to be divorced within 60 days...I wish I never knew about OM. Just my .02
You're not alone, this is the worst pain imaginable. Hope to hear that you're doing well with your kids. That's all any of us really have right?
Happy holidays and keep going.
As of December 2023 Me: 45 XW: 43 S13 S10 ILYBINILWY: 11/14/2014 OM: 11/14/2014 D process: 12/14/2014 D final: 04/2015
