New, looking for help. WAW won't communicate.

[okjpc]

Thanks, NAJ. I've been reading your posts too. The emotions seem so random sometimes, no?

If anyone reads this tonight, I'd love to get people's takes. I haven't seen my WAW in nearly three months and my SS/SD in even longer than that. I sent a xmas card to W, but am contemplating sending a text to all three of them tomorrow just wishing them a Merry Christmas. Is that a bad idea? Will that piss her off if I go directly to the kids? Should I care at this point?