The funny thing is that we all get to make choices about what we think is "best" for us. The WAW's decisions in their minds are the "best" even though we clearly don't understand. That's why they are so confident in their decisions, because this is what is "best" for me now! I am being brave and noble choosing my path because it's the truth for me blah blah blah..... Even though it causes so much pain for everyone involved, this is what's best.