barely holding on - 6

[u-turn]

NAJ - it seems like we just may be married to the same person - whodathoughtit?

I just don't know what she is thinking - her family used to be so important to her - she says the kids are still her life - she just doesn't see what she is doing. At one time I asked her about her self respect and accepting being OMs OW and how she could lower herself to doing that to herself - I know it was judgmental (pre-dbing). She said she would never want to be that. HMMMM.

early in my saga she actually said she was entitled to all of what she is doing. She justified it all as it is her time to be selfish and do what she wants. She chooses herself.