You've received some great advice. I know you miss your h, and I don't say this to be harsh, although the R you know is gone. Done. Really. And he's not the man you remember when you recall the good times. It sounds like you are *expecting* him to come back. He's not in da house.
Back off. Stop the calling to chat about whatever. Stop the R talks. This is not a productive use of your time. You need to focus on your life and your kids. I know you love your h, and again, you need to focus on making your life rich and wonderful whether it's with him, without him or with someone else.
Please keep in mind your ILs are in a difficult spot. They probably are operating the best they know how.
Hang in there and enjoy the kids this holiday season. They certainly make it fun:-)
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 12/24/1408:27 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
