He developed feelings and had a OM while we weren't even separated or even talking about separation, while he had a wife who told him how much she loved him every day, and life was good. I developed feelings for someone after my husband asked for a divorce, took off his wedding ring, told me he wasn't in love with me, changed his status on Facebook to separated and blocked me, and ended MC because he said he was only going to make separation easier for me. How dare he compare the two situations?!?!
He then proceeded to call me a whore, an awful person, someone he'd never care about again and many other terrible things. I replied, "well that clear things up. I was undecided on how to move ahead and a man who would say these things never loved me and doesn't love me. Thank you for the clarity. Goodnight". I stopped responding to him after that even though he sent a few more hateful texts including how I'd never mean anything to him again EVER. Fabulous Christmas this is going to be. All hell is going to break loose when he comes home this weekend I'm sure.
H: 43 W: 39 Married: 11 years Together: 18 years 1st BD: 05/2014 asks for separation 2nd BD: 06/16/2014 asks for divorce No kids EA: 2 months, not mutual (she didn't return the feelings) over
