Labug: Re childbirth: if I had to do it again there is so much I would do differently. And a Doula during and after birth would be at the top of my list, as would paying for a private room. I mean, the fact that we had so much else going on that was occupying our minds (home-buying, moving) should have made it a no Brainer.
There is so much I would do differently, but hindsight is 20/20.
This getting what we need, not just accepting wwhat we're handed is true of many areas in life.
There's usually always a different option and often a better option. We just have to know our needs and be willing to do some research.
Where we are now is a result of choices we've made all along the way.
We can start making better choices for ourselves. That's the beauty of this.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
