Another thing some WAW's do, is start out being kind of nice acting and telling you how you will always be friends, etc. As if she's trying to convince you this is a great idea. She may give much too simple reasons, like getting M too young or needing to find herself. Those are more smome screens for covering up the thruth.
So if being nice to you does not get you out of the house, she will start treating you worse and worse until ypu leave. Expect it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!