Hey Turn buddy , Ive been saying for months now our sitches are very similar . But i strongly advise you not to leave .She must be the one to leave .Remember the kids are the most important thing in your life , not her anymore . If she wants to be she will have to work hard to get there . If she doesnt want to do the work you cant do it alone . I struggled with the thought of her leaving would give her alot of time with OM , but you know what ? she will make time for that anyway even if she stays in your home . Im not affraid of her leaving anymore . I actually look at it as a new beginning . Yes I will miss the old life alot but if she passed away it would be the same things to deal with . So we gotta suck it up and realize nothing lasts forever . Hell she will in all likely hood want to come back at some point , most do from what I hear but by then you will likely have moved on unfortunatly . Ive been bouncing between letting her leave at her convenience and asking her to leave . not sure what to do . The Holidays are rough on you arent they ? I know , its killing me too . Anyway buds remember no rash decisions . I know I talk the talk sometimes but alot of it is just venting .. Merry xmas to all my friends here .. thx guys/gals Dawgy
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
