Okay, we get that she is the love of your life and you are devastated by all of this. My question is, what is she seeing when she looks at you?
Her heart is cold and she is not attracted to weakness. You will not win her by crying, pleading, professing your endless love, etc. It has a reverse affect on the walk away wife (WAW).
She will not respect you unless she sees you showing inner strength and firmness. Do not worry about this pushing her away b/c she will actually respect you for it. She may not tell you or even show it, but she will like you better when you stand up to her like a man.
Don't beg her to stay. Do not talk about the relationship. It only makes things worse. The best thing is to say, "This is not what I want, but will not stand in your way".
You cannot make another person love you. You cannot talk them into it. All you can do is back away and not put pressure on them. Sometimes, it will cause a WAW to reconsider.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
