Took S6+9 to a xmas get together with my side of the family.. Had a great afternoon with good food and company etc.. W was invited and would have been accepted in with open arms, but due to some last minute shopping that needed doing she couldn't make it.. At first thought I was thinking it was to catch up with new BF, but no, she really did shopping!!..
Went around looking at xmas lights when it got dark and met W around the halfway mark and she took over the light hunt as she has them tonight.. I will be at W's residence in the morning for Xmas stuff with the kids..
I feel like I am detaching more and more, and it feels good.. I'm still wanting to fight the fight, but now I realise what is said right from the word "go" about detaching.. I'm not saying I'm not all the way there yet, but I can feel I'm on the path.. LC is also helping greatly..
One thing I have noticed with W is that there is a totally different attitude from her when she is around others (her friends etc) whilst talking to me as there is when we are talking ourselves.. I have an idea as to why, but I'm probably well off the mark, and another persons idea may be more fitting..
I saw a great quote today for anyone thinking of throwing in the towel.. It goes:
"Giving up on a goal because of a setback is like slashing your other 3 tyres because you got one flat"..
We all have our goals so this rings true for all of us.. Anyway, Merry Xmas to all.. I wish everyone all the best wishes for the season.. Stay safe and stay happy!!..
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..
