Why can't I just move on? There is a very attractive girl at work who keeps throwing herself at me. We've been friends for years and laugh all the time as well as share many of the same interests. Why am I not excited to get to know her better? Get to know her family and friends? Or even simply just sleep with her? I feel nothing for her, I enjoy our time together but if she quit tomorrow and I never saw her again I wouldn't care.
Many times people with low self esteem subconsciously think that since I don't even like myself, there must be something WRONG with HER if she can like someone as low as me....