Oh, I tell her all the time that she's solely responsible for OM. I get it thrown back at me that it's my fault she was vulnerable. I just walk away. My BS tolerance is getting extremely low..
The next time she pulls this line, calmly say:
W, we both know that's not true. Don't try to shift blame on other people for your choices. I am NOT responsible for your affair. You made that choice with your eye wide open. And you know it. This nonsense stops right now. Just so we're clear on this. I'm done talking about this issue. It's not cool with me standing right in front of you as your H.
