I thought everything was okay...(Part 2)

[Mozza]

It you read my sitch in the last 24 hours you probably put me in the category of the people who were warned, with good reasons. Yet, my W was also giving me positive signals such as a family trip to see friends out of town, taking couple and family pictures, going on two dates, etc., this less than two weeks before BD. The positive signals are just business as usual for them because they are not ready to act or speak up. It's their way of keeping control, perhaps because they may change their mind. It seems normal to me.

I wouldn't be surprised if your reaction comes from her warming up a little. Sandi2 just wrote to someone else that LBS quickly turn into WAS when their spouse comes back too fast, because they haven't processed the situation. I know I still feel upset as soon as I imagine my W attempting a return of some sort. It takes time for us, not just for them. It's a tough situation and it can't be done too quick. Let's hang in there!