I just got off the phone with H. We were talking about houses that he has been considering. He wanted to know my opinion. A couple of times he mentioned that "he thought that we looked at this house."
I have not seen that house.
He wanted to know what I thought about them. He asked me to put myself in his shoes. I said there is something wrone with this picture. He wanted to know what it was. It came up that it didn't seem right that he didn't have anyone to share this with. He said that he would have someone once a month. I said "oh really, who is that?" H said me. I said that was fine as long as there wasn't anyone there on the off weekends.
H said: aww man there you go again putting restrictions... he wasn't in an angry tone. But we have had this conversation before, and it meant that OW was in the picture. He said He didn't know what I was doing. I told him to ask away. He changed the subject very quickly.
I am not feeling well about this.
I need ADVICE quick...
Do I ask him to be honest with me and let me know if he is seeing other people?
Do I ignore it and go on as usual?
Do I let him know that I am not looking to be a once a month addition to others he may have?
