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H20,
Next time he asks, tell him you are wearing a leather teddy!

He is definitely missing you!

I found a really cool underwear ebay store if you are interested...
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Karen~

LMAO!!

That was great and Yes I will use that line! that is great

Please share your underware store....

I am thinking back on last week with H.
HE called ME 3 times last week. He called again last night.
On Sat I went to a friends wedding and called him on my way home. Left VM. So we talked about the wedding. He asked why I had called him after going to the wedding. We talked about what it takes to sustain a M for a lifetime. It was a very good conversation.

This morning he sent me a page that said: "Good Morning!"

That made me smile!
Zero expectations. Letting go and going with the flow.

Blessings
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Good day Water,

Some good stuff happening here! When H looks for a "pick me up" he thinks of you and wants to hear your voice ... means he's discovering how good it felt to stay in contact, because lately he has pushed himself away and realizes he isn't feeling any better because of it.

Keep lettin' him work thru it, but keep being there for him.

Does that leather teddy come with high heel boots and a whip too?

'til later,
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Hi all~

H called me Sunday night, paged me Monday morning. Last night he paged me again:
H: Be safe
W: Always! U too xo
H: No
W: No, what
H: No I won't Its a joke
W: I know! just being silly too

This morning he pages again:
H: Get Up!
W: Yep, Hey I have a couple of outfits that I would look real cute out and about in Seattle this weekend.
H: I'll see what I can do

I'm not sure I'm on the right track here. I feel pursuing. He seems to be opening up and at least initiating more contact.

We'll see what happens. If it doesn't work out I will make other plans and let him know that.

Suggestions?

Thanks KAW for the insite as always it helps SOOOO much.
And yes high heels and a whip would be included !

Blessings
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In Ebay, you can do a search by Seller for:
FancyThongStore - cute stuff
sexystuff4u.com - more wild stuff...
I'll let you know when I find some more good ones!

More later!
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I just got off the phone with H.
We were talking about houses that he has been considering. He wanted to know my opinion. A couple of times he mentioned that "he thought that we looked at this house."

I have not seen that house.

He wanted to know what I thought about them. He asked me to put myself in his shoes. I said there is something wrone with this picture. He wanted to know what it was. It came up that it didn't seem right that he didn't have anyone to share this with. He said that he would have someone once a month. I said "oh really, who is that?" H said me. I said that was fine as long as there wasn't anyone there on the off weekends.

H said: aww man there you go again putting restrictions...
he wasn't in an angry tone. But we have had this conversation before, and it meant that OW was in the picture. He said He didn't know what I was doing. I told him to ask away.
He changed the subject very quickly.

I am not feeling well about this.

I need ADVICE quick...

Do I ask him to be honest with me and let me know if he is seeing other people?

Do I ignore it and go on as usual?

Do I let him know that I am not looking to be a once a month addition to others he may have?

HELP!!!

Water

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