Suckerpunch thank you so much for your wise words. Your positivity helps so much.
It's true our m was terrible in the year before he left. And he has said our m was over years ago. Not for me though. May I ask you what was the turning point for you? When did it all stop hurting so much and how were you able to detach enough to allow this?
He asked when he could come round on Christmas Day with the kids presents. I can't believe he will be waking up without them. I told him to come anytime in the morning, I think it'll be upsetting for us all when he leaves again. His choice, his life.
Wishing everyone a peaceful holiday.
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014
