I thought everything was okay...(Part 2)

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Just read through your thread.
Makes me feel I'm off well I can't imagine this happening after so many years.
Something I read in an article yesterday that helped me a lot: The problem a lot of us have is we don't take martial leadership. It starts with inducing communication in your marriage. There's so many people out there that do not communicate in their marriage. Maybe it's a character thing. But we should share our feelings with our spouse, good or bad. And not wait with it. That is our responsibility, that's what we promised each other.
If we fail doing that it can only go downhill. It's a connection we need. Honesty trust and respect!
If the spouse isn't doing this we have to take responsibility and be in charge.(Women like that anyway I guess). we have to be strong, in charge but nice and not cater, beg, cry. So much easier said than done.

Hope you have a nice Christmas time. It's probable the worst time of the year for us be strong, enjoy the people that love you and the ones you love, think positive, eat well