The book of Lou - Chapter 2

[AJM]

I can echo T2's statement - it's a little scary/exciting and there are feelings of guilt (not sure why) at first.

But there's a whole world out there. Lots of exciting things. Fun things. Scary things. Things that make life worth living and interesting.

Waiting for you to find them.

And remember, mentally and emotionally healthy people don't just cut and run like your H did.

It wasn't you, at the end of the day, it's his internal demons.

Uh, yeah. Since my ex left that Mother's day, I've had a chance to observe more and more couples and I've dated and learned. One thing I've learned is that what I saw with ex was nowhere near "normal" and still isn't. Nobody "normal" would say or do those things. In most of the couples I've seen, they just don't do that. I have a seen a few similar. I'm going to a party tonight with a friend who has experienced similar. To a house with a couple who used to be married and are throwing a party together as a family. For them, it's years later and they've become friends again and truly wish the best for each other.
And the world turns..

AJ