From what I read around here, you never mention you've seen a lawyer. It sounds antagonistic, like you're after her, and she won't react well. Well, how would you react if she told you she saw a lawyer? There you go. It's like a threat and takes your focus away from improving your M to defending yourself.
I don't understand why you'd go down this road now. You have one of the most promising sitches on these boards.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
