I'm curious. can you remember how you responded to that email from your Wife?
In terms of your 180s i'm starting to realise that some emotions can pervade all aspects of our lives regardless of how well we think we are controlling them. If you are making 180s that affect how you are then this will leak out in hundreds of tiny and almost imperceptible and noticeable ways.
yes some of the 180s you cant show her, but there are ways she will sense some of them and she will see you interact with your daughters so she might observe them as well
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
