Just reading up on some of your sitch/thread. I read the email from your W sent you. It takes a lot of time for someone to develop such negative feelings. It will take plenty of time for her perspective to change.
Take the things that hit home, and begin changing them. Not everything your W says is all on you. However, a lot of identifying and addressing the issues is the way to change her perspective. Then remain consistent. Remember, these changes are for you.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
