Mozza, I feel for you and would also love to get more perspective from women on your earlier post/email from W. Thanks for sharing with all of us. I see a lot of similarities in your sitch with my own.
Me: 39 W: 46 D: 7.5 S: 5 SD: 16 SS: 12 T: 2 (06/2012) M: 2 (12/2012) Separation 09/2014. No talks of D yet. No communication since 10/3/2014