Thanks for weighing in. I'll probably let go of the deposit and beds, etc. I don't plan on spending much on any furniture I'll need, and you get your deposit back. But I don't think it's fair for me to be stuck with $10,000 of car debt, with everything else fairly equal, especially since she already makes 10K more per year than me, and about to be a lot more when she finishes her MBA (paid by work).

I'll cross the bridge if it gets there, though.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23