Doing the limbo thing (thread #8)

[shodan]

My W has admitted to the A. Sorry if that was lost in the many threads. She said she was sorry, apologized for hurting me and said that she is not seeing him anymore. She wants to commit to making our M work.

But she is not offering full transparency. That is the bigger issue. She says she wants our M to work but feels so much pressure from me. I told her that I will do whatever it takes to make our M work but she is not willing to do the same. She feels like she will be a prisoner in our R.

And in terms of GALing, I have been doing some nights out on occasion and still am doing cross fit three times per week. But my efforts have been focused on our M/R for the past several weeks. So I am not detached as a result.