I have choir and then I am going to go stay at my parents and I will come pick them up tomorrow to go to church and my sister's. And then I added that if he has plans New Years Eve he can take the kids out to my parents.
So was my interaction over the line or was it boundary setting?
Mustard, a boundary is not trying to make someone else act a certain way. That's being controlling.
A boundary is about how YOU act when someone behaves in a certain way around you.
And the reason I recognize it is that it might have been pointed out to me a few times by a few people around here......
