"The problem I am having is with me. It all comes to me forcing my hand now and acting on this".
I am not sure what this^^^means?.. I think it is very important to not make decisions at this time of confusion and charged up emotions. What helped me was to glue myself together and try to think as clearly as I was able to. Even tho my head was spinning and the fear had me by the cojones.
You have many options. Detaching and GALing are two options. You don't have to make a decision today. My buddy used to say to me on here that "today is not the day to give up, maybe tomorrow, but let's see what tomorrow brings"...
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
