u-turn, Ok, so I found this new thread! I just wanted to let you know that I am going through all of that stuff in my house right now, too. H has expressed that he wants to leave after winter, and financially, that is the best solution for him. Christmas? Christmas day will be just the three of us. My son gets enough to know that there are (and always have been) issues with the relationship. I don't even want to spend Christmas with H, but I have to for our son.
