The only thing you can do at this time is take care of you and the kiddos. Your expectations of getting back together are really harmful. Not saying to lose hope. Just drop the expectations. The way I saw it was to become kind of self centered. Just worry about me and my daughter. Let ex do what ever. After a while I stopped thinking about what she was doing. Never asked her. I actually had to ask her to stop cooking and serving me dinner while we were divorcing. I started separating our lives. I would shop for myself and cook.I went to parties, saw my family more often. Did road trips.Crazy times...
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
