I forgot to add that during the conversation I did throw in some low blow passing comments about his "really good friend". I know this was a mistake because if there really is nothing going on between them he is going to use it as ammo that I am just jealous and crazy making up [censored]. Then I added, "I don't even care if that is who your plans were with because she is a huge step down for you and she can have you." Just to let him know I don't care, which I'm sure just proved to him that I do. IDK I should have kept her out of it. But I couldn't help myself. I'll try to do better next time.
EDIT TO ADD: Also I really don't want to go out to my mom's without the kids. I feel bad leaving them. But I don't want to be home and I think he needs to spend time with them. Not just Uncle/daddy time going to the movies, but actual parenting and tending to their needs time. Is it a mistake for me to leave them for the night? They are going to ask me all sorts of questions and I don't know how to answer? Now that they know we are considering D I guess maybe it is okay for me to say, "I wanted you to have some time with Dad without me around." Is that ok?
Last edited by mustardseed; 12/23/1405:48 PM.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
