Unfortunately. I see that closure/clarity meeting as a never ending cycle. All it will do is stoke the fire.
I'm a little bitter right now, but you have to stick to your boundaries.
That's exactly it. If she's as committed to working on her own marriage as she says she is, then why is "closure" so important?
Her seeing OM will stoke her emotions all over again. Never ending cycle. She still fantasizes that she and I can be solid again and he can still be a friend. It's infuriating.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
