Good, good. I don't know that there's any way to address this that she will "get it". Hopefully a vet might be able to give you more advice on how to respond other than wait and see what she does.

I'm sorry; it sounds super frustrating and disheartening. That must suck.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies