http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2502628&page=11

Everyone is correct that my situation is half baked. I clearly am being a fool and trying to make something work when my W is not fully committed. She seems to want this to work but more for the kids than for us. Her heart is someplace else. If it were not, she would not be so hesitant to be transparent.

Time for me to get back to GALing and detaching. I need to move on. I cannot continue to hurt the way that I do.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed