Quote:

He then proceeds to ask why I got my stuff out of my bag this morning and maybe I had been away. I told H that earlier in the evening, we were talking about staying at a hotel so I put my things in a bag. H says how do I know your telling the truth? How do we know what the other is telling is the truth?




LOL! The guilty WAS ALWAYS seems to go through a phase of being suspicious of the LBS - I guess it starts to dawn on them, gee, if I could cheat on my spouse, then my spouse could cheat on me - and I've given them a really good reason to do so!

When my H was turning around, one day I was driving the car and he answered my cell phone for me (call from the kids). Then he started checking the call records on my phone and asking me about various numbers on it! Well, the only unusual numbers on that phone would have been calls to or from the plumber or auto mechanic or the like. I'd never even looked at another man for the 20-some years we'd been together - it was so ludicrous I had to stifle a giggle! Totally his own guilt operating there.

Later, my H said it was GOOD for him to be a little jealous of me. So don't be so quick to reassure H (unless you have a history of being unfaithful yourself). It's good for him to realize that if he wants to be sure you're not seeing anyone else, he needs to move you to Seattle and commit to you!

Ellie