He is going to test you, stay strong and just take the lumps. He knows he would be a fool to lose what he has. Changing the environment has worked for me... but slowly. When this all shook out for me, I was in a tail spin till I decided that "if it is to be it is up to me". That is when I decided to get help for me.. and make the positive changes in my life. To get out of the bottle, to FB everyday something positive, to shave everyday, to work out every day, to be a person of my word. She still tests me, But I now think like I said in my post.. to do exactly that... to make sure that I have made real changes. One thing I have learned, It took a long time for us to get into this mess and it will take work and time to get out of it. There is nothing that I have read that says it cant be done.... You were once in love and can be again. Good luck Sister and don't quit quitting till those papers are signed.
Together 06-04 Married 10-05 She Left 10-11-14 I filed 10-22-14
