howdy Complex. I have been seeing a therapist since week 3..and doing a lot of studying on a few different sites. My first objective was to create a calm environment. which I have done a good job of. If she gets upset and starts unsing the blame game, I will just text her back and tell her that It just doesn't seem to be the right time yet to talk. My therapist says its ok to push a little once in a while to gauge where we are headed. I really thought that I made a mistake with the Email back to her... I kinda wrote it out of spite, because I was just expecting maybe 5-6 bullet points, brief and succinct. Instead I got the cliff's notes version of everything that has happened over the last 2-3 years. I want to keep my confidence and show her I am not the meek pushover I once was, so I decided to push back a little more... But I used more we's and us'es to soften the blow. and it has seemed to work a little. time will tell.
Together 06-04 Married 10-05 She Left 10-11-14 I filed 10-22-14
