A great night was had a Xmas carols by myself and the boys.. W didn't end up coming, but I had no expectations there either.. Lots of GAL activities over the last couple of days with them, and it sure is helping with the holiday hurt!!..

I am keeping to LC well, and not initiating any contact with W except for sending her a link today to a photo of me and the kids that was on the local newspapers website.. No reply to that message (for the last 2 hours anyway), and to be honest, I'm not expecting one..


On a bit of a rant in this part, but I've got to say I'm starting to get sick of everyone (family from both sides and friends) telling me that "she is making a huge mistake" and "no one ever saw us splitting up" or other comments along those lines.. I know in the 37 rules it is said not to get family involved etc, but instead of all these people telling me this, why the he!! don't they say that directly to her??..

A bit vindictive here, and possibly rude, but I can't wait for the day that the new BF shows his real colours to her.. I don't wish her any harm, but what does it take to show the grass isn't greener??.. Am I wrong for getting thoughts in my head that I would love to see their R (if you can really call it that after 2-3 weeks) crash and burn??..

The more I look at others sitch's here and elsewhere, the more I see that NOTHING that went on between us isn't fixable.. W just needs to see that instead of chasing the end of the rainbow..

/end rant


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..