I'll still be on vacation.
The situation is so hardened.

Basically my wife is 100% convinced I'm not the right person for her. And that there's no way to convince her.

I'm far away. I can't order Michelle's book from here and I can't get coaching or go to see a therapist. I need some quick fixes and advice. I'm trying to apply the 37 rules but it's hard. Especially over Christmas time. So hurtful.

Thank you so much. And Merry Christmas to everyone.

Last edited by Complex; 12/22/14 11:11 PM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15