Unbidden, I used Chuck also. I didn't agree with his advice on a few things. He told me also to spend time with H, he also told me not to fight H taking our 2 yr old twins overnight to OW house after dating her for 3 weeks....
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction