Hey Card...still thinking on a nickname for you. Yea, I know, Im weird that way. LOL!

You sound better. Im glad.

Funny how much we want something when we cant have it, right?

Not saying you dont love your wife and really want your marriage, just an observation.

So, I like your thankful list. Its a good thing to do often.

I would try to let your w live with her choices. She wants to feel heard. She needs to see what she wants her life to look like.

I love a good fire...:)