Sandi - if I understand correctly, Elsa's H has maintained a position of wanting to work on it, even while they are living apart.
Elsa - I'm sorry I've been silent lately. I do keep checking in on your progress and it sounds like things are inching (ever so slowly) in the right direction, even if things go backwards at times. I agree with a previous post (Maybell?) that it's so great to read about two people who are honestly trying to make this work out. It brings a lot of us hope! I also love the way you write as we can really see the process you are going through. I'd noticed before that you don't really talk negatively about your H - I think this is a great thing and says a lot about you. You've handled this whole thing with grace.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014