You can be in communication and friendly if you choose, but not in an R if that is your choice. It's not one or the other.
That is the attitude I take. Talk about ordinary things, friendly like a neighbour but not an R. Not until no EA/PA, gambling or heavy booze will we ever R. No abuse.
I will meet H but won't lunch with him. Tonight I did a chicken stir fry, did he want some? Yes he did. But we did not sit and eat together. Friendlly but not friends.
R talk, no thank you, meet for R talk, no thank you. Go for a drink, date, no thank you.
H if you want to get serious about M then you know the stance, otherwise i am getting on with my life, thank you kindly but no thanks. Have a nice day, good evening, enjoy your life, see you soon.
Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/22/1409:49 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW