Originally Posted By: Wonka
You don't want to encourage those types of behaviors in W. You're not in high school anymore where kids play boyfriends and girlfriends like musical chairs.

Just say,"I have no interest in viewing stupid videos that belong in a high school." That's just me.

A more apt response would be "Really?"

I know she's the one who left and shackled with an OM, but I feel an enormous amount of guilt for how I made her feel in the M, which makes it very difficult for me to be self-righteous or even mildly mean. I feel like she left because she was hurt by me, she needed to heal and that I need to make up for it, not make her feel bad about her choices, about what she says to me, etc.

Let me give you more details in the next post. It may affect my whole approach to my sitch.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.