Water, it never ends, does it? Do you think in his heart he really means it is no big deal? If so, and you can trust him, don't sweat it... I agree, it does seem ridiculous, but hasn't this whole journey???
Maybe you could negotiate putting it off, just see how things go...
Hang in there... clearly, he wants to start anew.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
